Comments on: Valentine’s Day – The Importance of a Father’s Love http://www.godgirl.net/valentines-day-the-importance-of-a-fathers-love.html Spreading the good news Sat, 03 Apr 2010 03:53:38 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Kim Burdick Brown http://www.godgirl.net/valentines-day-the-importance-of-a-fathers-love.html/comment-page-1#comment-17 Kim Burdick Brown Wed, 17 Feb 2010 22:10:08 +0000 http://www.godgirl.net/?p=122#comment-17 Hi Cindy, This was a very touching post. I somewhat have the same thing in my household, but as you probably no it is the opposite. I feel God gave me boys because he knew I would not be able to emotionally take care of a daughter because I never have had a mother/daughter relationship with my mom. I do know she loves me, she just can't show it like your dad. I believe it was just how she was raised. Like you, she provided for me, but not on an emotional level. I do remember like your mom, that my dad gave Lori and a box of candy every Valentines Day, but it was he who did that not my mom. But she did that best that she could and still does the best that she can. It is just who she is. Keep writing you are always inspiring me. I used to think you and I were so different because you are so very outgoing, but the more I read what you write, we have a lot in common! Take Care! Hi Cindy,
This was a very touching post. I somewhat have the same thing in my household, but as you probably no it is the opposite. I feel God gave me boys because he knew I would not be able to emotionally take care of a daughter because I never have had a mother/daughter relationship with my mom. I do know she loves me, she just can’t show it like your dad. I believe it was just how she was raised. Like you, she provided for me, but not on an emotional level. I do remember like your mom, that my dad gave Lori and a box of candy every Valentines Day, but it was he who did that not my mom. But she did that best that she could and still does the best that she can. It is just who she is. Keep writing you are always inspiring me. I used to think you and I were so different because you are so very outgoing, but the more I read what you write, we have a lot in common! Take Care!

]]> By: Rita & Serena http://www.godgirl.net/valentines-day-the-importance-of-a-fathers-love.html/comment-page-1#comment-16 Rita & Serena Mon, 15 Feb 2010 00:48:42 +0000 http://www.godgirl.net/?p=122#comment-16 Cindy, we just want to let you know how much we love. Thnak you for sharinmg with us. Have a great day. Love Serena & Rita Cindy, we just want to let you know how much we love. Thnak you for sharinmg with us. Have a great day. Love Serena & Rita

]]> By: Nora http://www.godgirl.net/valentines-day-the-importance-of-a-fathers-love.html/comment-page-1#comment-15 Nora Sun, 14 Feb 2010 04:36:21 +0000 http://www.godgirl.net/?p=122#comment-15 Cindy...such a honest, and heartfelt post, I'm so sorry to hear your dad passed 8 years ago. What I remember about him was, right after that dog hit us on the 4th of July. remember it was you, Cheryl and I. I was beside myself not having ever killed an animal before, and my little white car was covered in blood. If I remember right, we were all pretty shook up about it...and then later when I was finally ready to leave your wonderful home (fully expecting to have to deal with that bloody mess), I walked out and my car was perfectly clean. Your dad had washed it. I am still blown away by that act of kindness...more than that, that act of Love. I wouldn't be surprised if everything he did for your mom, you, your friends was him saying how much he loved you. You're right he didn't know how to tell you he loved you, but many times we also don't recognize love when it is given because of expectations...Happy Valentines Day Cindy...I think of you often, and love dropping by your blog every so often. I have a blog also...and even though my life is so different now than yours, if you read it that the grass is not always greener on the other side. I believe now that I'm about to turn 52 in April that life was meant to be hard...that is when growth takes place. Love You. Nora Cindy…such a honest, and heartfelt post, I’m so sorry to hear your dad passed 8 years ago. What I remember about him was, right after that dog hit us on the 4th of July. remember it was you, Cheryl and I. I was beside myself not having ever killed an animal before, and my little white car was covered in blood. If I remember right, we were all pretty shook up about it…and then later when I was finally ready to leave your wonderful home (fully expecting to have to deal with that bloody mess), I walked out and my car was perfectly clean. Your dad had washed it. I am still blown away by that act of kindness…more than that, that act of Love. I wouldn’t be surprised if everything he did for your mom, you, your friends was him saying how much he loved you. You’re right he didn’t know how to tell you he loved you, but many times we also don’t recognize love when it is given because of expectations…Happy Valentines Day Cindy…I think of you often, and love dropping by your blog every so often. I have a blog also…and even though my life is so different now than yours, if you read it that the grass is not always greener on the other side. I believe now that I’m about to turn 52 in April that life was meant to be hard…that is when growth takes place.

Love You.

Nora

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